For as long as I can remember,I have been very(36)
at arguing with people.As soon as someone disagrees with me,I get angry because I feel (37)
,like the other person is out to show that I am(38)
.And for some reason,I hate being wrong!So my(39)
reaction is to get very defensive.I(40)
my voice,and I end up saying something I later(41)
.Needless to say,the whole thing ends with me blaming(42)
,and the other person feeling alienated(疏远) from me.This bothers me especially because my mother does the exact same thing and I hate(43)
.
I have noticed this tendency in me for a long time now,(44)
I have never been able to stop.I did some(45)
management work with a therapist(治疗专家) a while ago,but because I moved and(46)
an advisor at school who can't see me (47)
,I have not been able to continue this important work.They tell you to stop and count to 10,(48)
your breathing,calm yourself down before you(49)
.But that's the whole problem.I could never think of(50)
myself until it was too late!The(51)
things had already come out of my mouth,and I was stuck picking up the pieces.
Right now the(52)
is urgent because my relationships with a wonderful boy is (53)
because of my being afraid of being wrong.He is closing himself off from me because I have hurt him,and(54)
I am no longer attractive as a woman with no confidence in myself and a bad temper.How do I stop ruining my relationships and hating myself?How do I stop55
being wrong?
36.A.bad | B.good | C.hateful | D.quick |
37.A.disappointed | B.excited | C.attacked | D.ashamed |
38.A.wrong | B.foolish | C.empty-headed | D.right |
39.A.unusual | B.immediate | C.following | D.last |
40.A.raise | B.lower | C.keep | D.change |
41.A.remember | B.regret | C.forget | D.realize |
42.A.her | B.him | C.me | D.myself |
43.A.it | B.her | C.them | D.us |
44.A.so | B.but | C.although | D.however |
45.A.health | B.action | C.calmness | D.anger |
46.A.headed to | B.asked for | C.turned to | D.referred to |
47.A.regularly | B.carelessly | C.immediately | D.patiently |
48.A.stop | B.manage | C.keep | D.control |
49.A.say | B.chat | C speak | D.talk |
50.A.stopping | B.managing | C.persuading | D.helping |
51.A.hurtful | B.surprising | C.colorful | D.dangerous |
52.A.event | B.thing | C.affair | D.problem |
53.A.in the way | B.in the end | C.in danger | D.in the beginning |
54.A.no doubt | B.no problem | C.no wonder | D.no way |
55.A.liking | B.hating | C.finding | D.dealing |