3.
I was an angry adolescent in my first year of college.In my eyes,my father seemed to
(1) me in no way.
One day we had a serious fight.I saw my father as
(2) me and wanted to break free.
(3) ,he regarded me as disobedient and tried hard to keep his
(4) on me.We both exploded in
(5) .The situation was so unbearable that I
(6) out of the house and took the bus to school.My mind raced with
(7) thoughts about my father,feeling certain that no one in the world had ever had such a terrible father!
"I am the son of an IDIOT!How dare he interrupt my life and plans!"I wrote these words on a thought card,which served as a communication
(8) as well as the admission ticket to the literature class of Dr.Simon,a unique excellent teacher with
(9) teaching methods.Being ten minutes late,I
(10) handed it to him and dashed into the classroom.
The next day,his comment on the
(11) card struck me as if someone had punched me in the stomach.It read,"Why not stop blaming and be responsible for yourself?"No one had
(12) me to do so!
The
(13) kept coming up over the next few weeks.As I again heard myself blaming my father for this or that,I asked myself,"How long can you
(14) blaming others for YOUR life?"
Gradually,my thinking
(15) .It took over a year
(16) people began to notice that I was taking responsibility for my own actions and feelings.
I was amazed at improvement of my grades and the
(17) of number and quality of my friends.It was
(18) astonishing how much smarter my father seemed.Fights with my father became less and finally disappeared for I learned to think of him as a loving man with good
(19) ,who just had no smooth ways to
(20) me.
It all started with a question.