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Jerry: Susan, there are three styles of conversation (1) _ (mention) in your new book, bowling, rugby and basketball. What are they?
Susan: Well, in a bowling style, people hold back when an elder or senior person is speaking, and they talk only if they (2) (ask) for their opinion.
Jerry: Just like people take turns in bowling.
Susan: (3) (exact). You go and roll and I wait for you. Then itˈs my turn.
Jerry: So thatˈs the high-considerate (高度体贴的) model.
Susan: Yes. Then thereˈs the rugby style, (4) _ might be opposite. In this style youˈre expected to interrupt other people and they are fine with that, because they expect (5) (interrupt). So many voices can be heard at the same time.
Jerry: And what about the basketball model?
Susan: Suppose youˈre playing basketball, for example, you (6) (move) the ball forward. When you hesitate (犹豫), someone sees that as (7) portunity to jump in and take the ball away. Stealing the conversation away is the same thing. Not in a bad way, (8) just as“Oh, itˈs my turn now”.
Jerry: Which style do you think is the (9) (good)?
Susan: Well, itˈs hard to say. It depends (10) the occasion.