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Have you considered how good of a friend you are? Here are several simple but effective things you can do to be a better friend.
Identify who your real friends are
It sounds simple enough, but now it's a good time to reflect on who your real friends are. If you want to maintain your friendship with the guy who likes all of your status updates, go for it. ____ (1) _ That's life. You have to identify the people you want to invest in, and those are the people who will benefit from your dedication to becoming a better friend.
____ (2) ___
Remember the last time a long-distance friend called to hear how you and your family was doing, but you forgot to call them back? __(3) Being responsive(回应) ,even if it's to refuse an invitation, shows your friends that they're important to you.
However, if being unresponsive is the kind of thing that happens regularly, your friends will start to think you're strange. __(4)___
Stay in touch
Speaking of long-distance friends, how easy is it to fall out of touch? For a lot of us, out of sight means out of mind, which sets the friendship up for failure. ___(5)___ And not staying in touch with friends who live in the same city, well, that's especially troubling.
You may think you're connected because you're regularly liking each other's shared pictures, but never think passive forms of communication are acceptable substitutes for face-to-face time.
(1) A. Voice your limits |
B. Do respond to them |
C. Remember: actions-and inaction-speak louder than words. |
D. If you want to express your opinions, you need to do it bravely. |
E. If you haven't called your real friends in months, it's time to pick up the phone. |
F. If you come to the conclusion that you need to give up some friends, that's fine. |
G. Remember the last time one of your friends invited you out, but you didn't respond? |
(2) A. Voice your limits |
B. Do respond to them |
C. Remember: actions-and inaction-speak louder than words. |
D. If you want to express your opinions, you need to do it bravely. |
E. If you haven't called your real friends in months, it's time to pick up the phone. |
F. If you come to the conclusion that you need to give up some friends, that's fine. |
G. Remember the last time one of your friends invited you out, but you didn't respond? |
(3) A. Voice your limits |
B. Do respond to them |
C. Remember: actions-and inaction-speak louder than words. |
D. If you want to express your opinions, you need to do it bravely. |
E. If you haven't called your real friends in months, it's time to pick up the phone. |
F. If you come to the conclusion that you need to give up some friends, that's fine. |
G. Remember the last time one of your friends invited you out, but you didn't respond? |
(4) A. Voice your limits |
B. Do respond to them |
C. Remember: actions-and inaction-speak louder than words. |
D. If you want to express your opinions, you need to do it bravely. |
E. If you haven't called your real friends in months, it's time to pick up the phone. |
F. If you come to the conclusion that you need to give up some friends, that's fine. |
G. Remember the last time one of your friends invited you out, but you didn't respond? |
(5) A. Voice your limits |
B. Do respond to them |
C. Remember: actions-and inaction-speak louder than words. |
D. If you want to express your opinions, you need to do it bravely. |
E. If you haven't called your real friends in months, it's time to pick up the phone. |
F. If you come to the conclusion that you need to give up some friends, that's fine. |
G. Remember the last time one of your friends invited you out, but you didn't respond? |