As children,our parents had dreams for us.They wanted us to do whatever was necessary to reach our highest
(1) .Later in life,friends and spouses (配偶) may also have schedules for us.People close to us may have ideas about
(2) we should live our lives.The ideas usually
(3) love and the desire for us to be happy.Other times,they coe from a place of need within them-
(4) it is the parent who wants us to
(5) his o her dreams or the friend who wants us to play an alreadydefined role.We can appreciate and consider those people's input,but
(6) we must follow our own inner guidance.
There may come a time when all the suggestions can become
(7) .We may feel that the people we love don't approve of our judgment,which can
(8) us to some extent.It can
(9) the choices we make for our lives by making us
(10) ourselves.It may also fill a void (空虚) with their
(11) before we've had a chance to decide what we want.However,it can affect us
(12) as well.We may have to
(13) the feelings of resistance and to keep ourselves off from them.But we can take some time to
(14) ourselves of any unnecessary doubts and go within to become
(15) on what we desire for ourselves.
We can tell our loved ones how much we
(16) their thoughts and ideas,but that we need to live our own lives and make our own
(17) .We can explain that they need to let us learn from our own experiences
(18) to rob us of wonderful life lessons and the opportunity to
(19) our own judgment.When they see that we are happy with our lives,they can see all we need them do is to share
(20) with us.