I was tired and hungry after a long day of work.
When I walked into the living-room,my 12-year-old son
(1) up at me and said,"I love you."I didn't know what to say.For several
(2) all I could do was to
(3) there and looked down at him.My first thought was that he must need
(4) with his homework or he was trying to
(5) me for some news.
Finally I asked,"What was that all about?"
"Nothing,"he said."My teacher said we should
(6) our parents that we love them and sees what they say.It's
(7) ."
The next day I called his teacher to find out more about this"experiment"and how the other parents had
(8) .
"Most of the fathers had the
(9) reacting (反应) as you did,"the teacher said."When I first
(10) we try this,I asked the children what they thought their parents would say.Some of them thought their parents would have heart trouble."The
(11) is,"the teacher explained,"feeling loved is an important part of
(12) .It is something all people
(13) .What I'm trying to tell the children is that it's too
(14) we don't all express those feeling.A boy
(15) tell his dad he loves him."
The teacher,a middle-aged man,understands how
(16) it is for some of us to say the things that would be good for us to say.
When my son came to me that evening,I held on to (抱着) him for
(17) second.And just before he
(18) away,I said in my deepest,most manly (男子气概) voice,"Hey,I love you,too."
I don't know if saying that made either of us healthier,but it did feel pretty good (感觉很好).Maybe next time one of my children says"I love you",it would not take me a whole
(19) to think of the right
(20) .