Recently, while reading John Sayles’s A Moment in the Sun and still not knowing what it was about, Michelle Ginder made a conscious decision to put down the book. She moved on to something more appealing, readingthe Game of Thrones’ series. “It felt sogood,” she says. “There was so much guilt associated with quitting, but when I finally did it, it was liberating.”
In the age of the e-reader,dropping a book has never been easier: It doesn’t even require getting up tograb another off the shelf. But choosing to end a relationship with a book remains strangely anxious, a decision filled with guilt.
“It goes against how we’re built,” says Matthew Wilhelm, a clinical psychologist in Union City, Calif. “There is a tendency for us to view objects as ‘finished’ or ‘whole’ even though they may not be. This motivation is very powerful and helps to explain anxiety around unfinished activities.”
Readers aged 16 and older average 17 books a year, according to Pew Research Center data. Ms. Ginder used to read an average amount. But using her new approach to reading, she reads up to 31 books a year. She has about 10 books ready to begin on her shelf or Kindle at any time. When she drops one, she simply pulls up another in seconds.
Kindle readers abandon books frequently, according to Ms. Ginder and other readers. Sara Nelson, an editorial director of books and Kindle at Amazon.com, says she believes that e-readers haven’t been given so much license to stop, but the ability to dip in and out of books, depending on their mood.
Ms. Haber at the Oprah magazine says, “If you come to a book at the wrong time, it won’t connect.” She started and stopped Jonathan Franzen’s The Corrections a few times before getting completely absorbed in it, and owes her ability to finally finish the novel to trying it while on vacation. Reading it outside her regular life, she says, gave the book a new meaning.
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